Reporting Your Own Sexual Assault

Law enforcement is your best bet if you are looking to get justice for what occurred, as they will be able to begin the legal process. However, for some survivors, that can seem intimidating. In that case, calling a hotline may be the way to go. They can provide support and lead you in the right direction. Other survivors feel more comfortable reporting their experience(s) to a trusted adult. This can also help to lead you in the right direction. The choice is yours to make and no choice is incorrect. 

If you are reporting your experience(s) to law enforcement, start by going to your local police station. From there, they will inform you on what to do next. They may ask you personal questions pertaining to your experience(s) in order to determine the correct next step. This is to help you, so it is important that you answer thoroughly and honestly. If you are reporting to a hotline, they may also ask questions to get a better understanding of what occurred. Finally, if you are reporting to a trusted adult, start by asking to "discuss something with them in a private setting". From there, explain what occurred, in as little or as much detail as you feel comfortable with. Ideally, they will provide you with support, care, resources, and ideas of what to do next. 

Reporting your experience(s) can be frightening, but there are many benefits to it including...

• Getting justice and having the perpetrator pay for their actions
• Gaining a sense of freedom
• Preventing it from happening again (to you or someone else), by the same perpetrator
• Reasserting control and take your power back

Ultimately, the sooner you report sexual assault, the better. For one, the details of what happened will be fresher in your mind and easier to recall. Additionally, a forensic examination, (also known as a "rape kit"), can only be done within 72 hours following the sexual assault. Some survivors, however, wait to report and that is a personal decision you must make. Whatever choice you make, ensure that you put you and your safety first. 

• You should not be financially responsible for any forensic examinations/"rape kits". 
• Unless you are suing and using a personally appointed lawyer, you will not be responsible for any legal process fees. Victims compensation is also available through Pennsylvania's Victims Compensation Assistance Program. 
• Do not let anyone else tell you what to do. Only you know what's best for you. 
• Your story is your own to tell. 
• You are not alone on this journey. There are many other people navigating similar situations as yours. There are also many people and resources available that can support you.